I got this from an email from my friends which is worth reading.
A small touching story mainly for professionals...
A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.
SoN: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?" replied the man.
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?" the man said angrily.
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make Rs.100 an hour."
SON: "Oh," the little boy replied, with his head down.
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow Rs.50?"
The father was furious, "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior."
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
"Are you asleep, son?" He asked.
"No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.
"I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier" said the man.
"It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the Rs.50 you asked for."
The little boy sat straight up, smiling. "Oh, thank you daddy!" He yelled.
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.
The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
"Why do you want more money if you already have some?" the father grumbled.
"Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied.
"Daddy, I have Rs.100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?
Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you."
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent sometime with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.
Do remember to share that Rs.100 worth of your time with someone you love.
If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days.
But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
Gee Sam, that was a touching story, I even felt some tears well up in my eyes! Nice one.
ReplyDeleteThis is a touching story. Many parents nowadays have become slaves to their job and rarely spend time with their children although they could have done that. They send the kids to nanny and ensure their schedule is packed so that parents have time for their own. Very selfish.
ReplyDeleteHope parents will spend time with their children this Raya holiday.
Hi Sam,
ReplyDeleteA very touching story that I had read in the past. I thought of posting this in my blog. Can I have your permission to take this nice post for my blog?
Blessings to you, Sam
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Nick: It is really touching. In pursuit of career, we always tend to forget about our family. Me too have gone through that and I dedicate more time with my family.
ReplyDeleteHCFoo: It is common esp.professionals this days tend to spend less time with their family. Leaving the kids to caretaker or maids while they build there career. When they realise it, it is a bit late.:)
Sam Chan; Go ahead with the posting at your blog as it meant to be share with as many people as possible about it. Have a nice Raya Holidays.
Blessings to you too. :)
Hi Sam,
ReplyDeleteThanks for giving me the permission.
I had just posted it today!
Check it out and give me your comments. Thank you.
Best Wishes
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